人生七年7影评:What i want to do for you is 'i will' instead of i 'have to'.
[Nick]
The true of love maybe in the comparison in the words out of the two women:
[in the 19's series:]His girlfriend said:if he had somebody who had had fixed ideas of a woman‘s
role in marriage that mean the dinner on the table at six every evening.
[in the 49's series:]His new wife said:And there was no way i would say no to being married to this man,i wanted to be with him.When the journalist asked her,do you have anything to change him?She replied:You don't mess with mother nature in terms of little things like how somebody does their toothpaste,those silly nonsense things.He immediately attended to it.I had never been with anybody who did so.I mean i could see it being a slippery slope,you know i didn't want to go that way in terms of my ordering his life.(She didn't make too many demands)I didn't want him to be a different person.
不知怎么的,这段话让我的感受特别深特别深,一个是一脸傲气写着“我凭什么为你付出的这么多”的ambitious girl,一个是近50岁淡定坦然满脸幸福微笑的说,我一定要嫁给他,he is absolutely sexy的 gentle lady,i can't tell that thedifference between the two women is derive from love or time.
看到Bruce的时候我觉得爱情的真谛就是善良和欣赏,看到Nick的时候,我更加坚定了,门当户对固然重要,但是当看完这长长的一生,会觉得,爱情就是compromise,可是我为什么可以一直这么compromise you,just because of the appreciate & love.What i want to do for you is 'i will' instead of i 'have to'.