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I grew up in a similar situation as Dylan. My mom most likely has borderline personality disorder, and I was sexually abused by my dad at the same age of seven. She had sole custody, but I saw him on the weekends. It was a similar scenario.This is what I can offer to help understand the situation:

1)Memories of sexual abuse are tricky, especially at seven or below. They are fuzzier than older children due to the nature of the trauma. Research shows at around seven kids can recall them better; it explains why they are so upsetting but maybe a bit disconjointed for dylan

2) You can have a mom with bpd and a father who sexually abused you

3) Just because courts or the investigators didn’t convict him doesn’t mean he is innocent. In all of my family’s domestic and court issues my mom always looked like the crazy one, when my dad always seemed calm and together. In fact although my mom was more like Mia and a bit untethered at times she truly tried to protect me, when my dad in fact was the truth sociopath. Make a woman helpless to help her children and you will see what you get.

4) As a teacher, it’s really gross to see woody being defended for marrying his stepdaughter. First of all, she could be a wonderful woman, but what many might not know here is that is a very common reaction to trauma- fight flight flee or fawn. If she had trouble with Mia at all it makes total sense she would fawn the man grooming her at that age. There really is no defense. It’s gross even if it cannot be considered true sexual abuse, it shows a certain pattern（不管怎么样这一点真的也是take advantage的感觉太强烈了，不犯法是一回事，这个pattern在他电影里，油嘴滑舌劝那些年轻女孩经历老男人再找年轻的把责任都往年轻女孩身上扔调调真的不是太ok，让人想到马男bojack和那个小鹿，还有教师情事里年轻人当时都觉得是自己想要的情愿的，但是等回过头都......）

5) Lastly, has no one learned from Nassar? Woody shares many of the same traits. The fact he wanted nothing to do with Mia’s children but MARRIES one shows a disconcerting attempt to throw her off her guard.

6) I have experienced emotional, physical, and sexual abuse. They are all bad but nothing compares to the sexual abuse of a child. It’s kind of gross comparing Mia’s alleged bpd with possible sexual abuse of a minor.

7) Btw, it’s really hard to come forward with this kind of abuse as an adult...I have’t. I don’t think with all the coaching in the world that Dylan would come forward if she wasn’t 100% sure... would you want to be known for being sexually abused as a child? I sure dont