婚姻生活

这个习得性无助的、压抑掩饰的、无法全然在场的自我，简直是自己前二十几年人生的剖白，在此摘录，感谢J：

This boy couldn’t really be himself,he couldn’t share his hardships,his fears,because his mother would immediately get so overwhelmed that her anxiety would only compound his.And then,when he realized no one actually saw him,his true self that is,no one could help him cope with everything he was going through,he fell deeper and deeper into himself ,and kept all of his pain and anxiety inside,and never told anyone anything,and this split inside him wouldn’t let him truly be in a relationship,because there was always part of him that he kept hidden,he was never fully present.