默默看完尼古拉斯凯奇的《The Family Man》，记住了一句话“I choose us”，放不下一个问题“失去和放弃哪一个比较痛苦？真爱和事业哪一个更重要？”
无数次想过，在选择的岔路口若当时做了另外的决定,人生会有怎样的精彩，是不是会更幸福？Jack想过，Kate也思量过，但是Kate更胜一着，透过清澈的蓝眼睛，你读得出她心目中真爱的价值，这份肯定甚至扭转了Jack对原有现实生活的确定，推翻了他对人生幸福的定义——如果幸福只是要为多数人嫉妒、羡慕，那么一个洋溢着真爱的暖暖小家的确已经足以让太多人艳羡。所以难得的不是事业有多辉煌，一切多么顺利，重要的是和谁一起，而自己又是否能悦纳眼前拥有的生活。
幸福太多时候只是一种体验，和财富地位没有关联，这样想或者可以轻松面对二人世界的一切不如意处。平庸也无妨，但重要的是清醒意识到自己已然拥有值得甘于平庸的幸福，不仅要自己确定，还要伴侣也一样这样肯定……那么，这样的生活就真的足以称颂，足以值得放弃更多更美的选择，足以让人甘之如饴，无怨无悔。
Kate: “When you got on that plane, I was sure it was over. I left the airport afraid I'd never see you again. And then you showed up the very next day. That was a good surprise. You know, I think about the decision you made... maybe I was being naive, but I believed that we would grow old together in this house. That we'd spend holidays here and have our grandchildren come visit us here. I had this image of us, all grey and wrinkly, and me working in the garden and you re-painting the deck. But things change. If you need this, Jack, if you really need this, I will take these kids from a life they love and I'll take myself from the only home we've ever shared together and I'll move wherever you need to go. I'll do that because I love you. I love you, and that's more important to me than our address. I choose us.”
凯特：“当你搭乘那架飞机离开，我曾确信一切都结束了，在离开机场时我害怕将永远不能再见到你。但是，就在第二天你就回来了！那实在是大大的惊喜！你知道，我考虑了你所做的决定……也许我真的太天真，我曾真的相信我们会在这所房子里一起到白头，在这里度过假日，孙儿们会来这里看望我们。我构想过我们已然白发苍苍，满是皱纹，我在整理花园而你在为阳台重新刷漆的场景。但是一切都变了。如果你希望这样做，杰克，如果你真的希望这样，我会带着孩子们离开他们所爱的生活，也带着我自己离开我们共同经营的唯一的家，只要是你想去的地方我都追随你而去。我做这一切都是因为我爱你，这远比我们的住所更重要。我要我们在一起。”
Jack:“We have a house in Jersey. We have two kids, Annie and Josh. Annie's not much of a violin player, but she tries real hard. She's a little precocious, but that's only because she says what's on her mind. And when she smiles... And Josh, he has your eyes. He doesn't say much, but we know he's smart. He's always got his eyes open, he's always watching us. Sometimes you can look at him and you just know he's learning something new. It's like witnessing a miracle. The house is a mess but it's ours. After 122 more payments, it's going to be ours. And you, you're a non-profit lawyer. That's right, you're completely non-profit, but that doesn't seem to bother you. And we're in love. After 13 years of marriage we're still unbelievably in love. You won't even let me touch you until I've said it. I sing to you. Not all the time, but definitely on special occasions. We've dealt with our share of surprises and made a lot of sacrifices but we've stayed together. You see, you're a better person than I am. And it made me a better person to be around you. I don't know, maybe it was just all a dream. Maybe I went to bed one lonely night in December and I imagined it all. But I swear, nothing has ever felt more real. And if you get on that plane right now, it'll disappear forever. I know we could both go on with our lives and we'd both be fine, but I've seen what we could be like together. And I choose us.”
杰克：“我们在Jersey有一个家，我们有两个孩子，安妮和乔士。安妮小提琴拉得虽然不大好但是很努力。这孩子有点点早熟，但那也只是因为她表达了自己的想法，而且，她笑的时候……还有乔士，他的眼睛那么像你，他还不能说些什么，但是我们知道他很机灵。他总是睁着眼睛，总是盯着我们瞧。有时候你看着他就会知道他准是又发现了什么新鲜事，这简直就像见证奇迹！房子虽然有点乱糟糟的，但那是属于我们的，只要再付122次贷款就完全属于我们了。还有你，你是一个公益律师，没错，收入可怜，尽管如此却不曾让你烦扰。而且，我们还相爱，经历13年的婚姻生活，令人难以置信的是我们依然相爱！如果我不说‘我爱你’你甚至不允许我碰你。我为你歌唱，虽然不时常如此，但那确实是在很特别的时刻。历经风雨坎坷我们仍然在一起。你看，比起我来，你要出色的多，和你一起我也变得好起来。我不知道，可能那一切都只是梦境，也许只是我在12月的一个孤寂夜晚的胡思乱想，但是我发誓，我从未感到那样真实。如果你此时乘飞机离开，那一切恐怕真的会永远消逝。我明白即便我们不在一起我们也可以生活得很好，但是我知道如果我们在一起生活会是怎样。我要我们在一起。”
Lala Means I love You
Many guys come to you with a lie that wasn't true
And you past them by (past them by)
Though you're in the scenery
And their lies don't mean anything
Why don't you let me try (let me try)
Now I don't have a diamond ring
I don't even know a song to sing
All I know is La La .... means I love you
If I ever saw a girl that I needed in this world
you're the one for me (one for me)
Let me hold you in my arms girl and thrill you with my charm
I'm sure that you will see (you will see)
The things I'm saying all true And the way I explain them to you
Let me tell you La La .... means I love you
That things I'm saying all true And the way I explain them to you(yes to you)
Listen darling La La .... means I love you
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